I am so sorry to hear about your brother, what a profound tragedy for you and your family. I have to admit, if I was in your parents’ shoes, would I be able to come from that place of not blaming? Of course the circumstances matter but still, I’m blown away by the reactions of parents (like yours) who were thrown into impossibly sad situations and found some acceptance and a path through it. Thank you for sharing your perspective.

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